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Photography by Luv Ali gay shit. Ali: I feel like playing soccer together set us up for success and for our relationship to last this long. I feel like normally I would jump into something right away, and might take it too fast. I think we did a great job just kind of taking it slow in a way that we felt was appropriate to create a safe space and make it really successful for both of us.

Plus we were going through a lot and things got really stressful for both of us. I think from the very beginning, not many people know that we were friends first for a long time, rather than just jumping into a relationship together. I genuinely woke up at a. Those were the sacrifices we had to make to make our relationship work and you know what?

We really had to focus on spending quality time together, whether it was Skype or whatever type of Facetime equivalent we had 10 years ago.

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We really nurtured our relationship from the beginning and we took it really seriously. When we were trying to ali gay shit it work, we were still burning CDs for each other and writing the songs on the CD, so times have definitely changed. Ali: A few things that were so important to us was 1.

Communication and 2. Having trust within our relationship. Make your partner priority. Taking time out of your day to talk and show that you are in this together. All three are really key for long distance relationships. Ali: First and foremost respect is huge and I know that regardless if she is yelling at me from behind on the field, off the field we try to speak very respectful to each other all the time, very calm and collected.

Because I think that is first and foremost in a relationship and with your partner, you have to respect each other. At the end of the day, the end result is that we respect each other, we love each other and we care about each other and that comes first. In the workplace, we are there to do our job and there to do it well.

Ali: I think the latter part of the statement you just made. I think we were like you know what this feels right. Up until now, we were a bit hesitant, but that was more from a privacy perspective rather than a hiding perspective. We were never really hiding, I think our closest friends and family always knew that we were together and built this life that we really love.

But officially announcing it felt like we were finally out together, because we had never really announced it as a couple. We just want to be our authentic selves, live our lives to the fullest and not feel that in this day and age we have to hide from being ourselves and being happy, which is most important.

Ashlyn : I would say for Ali and I, we get stopped ali gay shit often now and I feel like coming out has made us a little bit more approachable. We aligned ourselves with companies, partners, vendors and wedding planners who spoke our language, who understood us, who saw us, who celebrated us while creating a safe space for us to be our full selves.

In order to do that, we looked at each other and we were like we have to pay it forward, we need people to see that this is happy, that this is normal and this should be celebrated. People need to be able to open up magazines and see two women together. People need to see Great Heights advertisement with two women being celebrated for a partnership in a marriage that they hold really dear.